NOMADEN

I am unwritten, can’t read my mind, I’m undefined
I’m just beginning, the pen’s in my hand, ending unplanned

Reaching for something in the distance
So close you can almost taste it
Release your inhibitions

Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips

Drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins
The rest is still unwritten

I break tradition, sometimes my tries, are outside the lines
We’ve been conditioned to not make mistakes, but I can’t live that way

1. No other human being should come before your mate - no one, neither father nor mother, son nor daughter, brother nor sister, friend nor acquaintance.

2. You should put no thing between each other. No house should ever come before your spouse. Whether house, car, pleasure, money, or fame - nothing.

3. Since God’s Word teaches us to make no idols, it follows that we are to honor each other’s name. Honor each other and seek to put each other first above any other person on earth.

4. Set time aside for the two of you so you may not grow apart but even closer. Your spouse and your children are worthy of your time and your undivided attention.

5. As you two become one, you marry into another family. Wise is the husband or wife who does not take it upon himself or herself to find fault with those who are related to their spouse.

6. Husbands, do not destroy your bride’s dreams and hopes for the future which she now places in your hands. Most of man’s earthly happiness depends upon his wife. Most assuredly God will bless a man in this life, yet John Wesley discovered that, regardless of a noble cause, a woman can make a man most miserable. Wife, covenant that you will not be such a person. Both of you must honor and build up the personhood of the other.

7. You should not give away your passions to another in word, in thought, or in deed. This person beside whom you stand on your wedding day is to be your lover as well as your helpmate and your best friend.

8. The spirit of gratitude can greatly can greatly bless a home. If your minds are filled with thoughts of gratitude, and if you look on that which you do have and not that which you do not have, you will be blessed.

9. Be honest with each other. Dishonesty and an unwillingness to talk through differences build a silent wall which is not easily dismantled. The real self, then, refuses to be disclosed, and a couple may gradually begin to drift apart.

10. Do no engage in selfish fantasies. Be content with the one whom God has given to you, and God will bless your lives together.

Kemarin sore, saya pura pura tinggain Chloé sambil waving bye bye..so yeah, lucu sih lucu, karena Chloé langsung mewek nangis begitu saya semakin menjauh dari dia. Begitu saya kembali ke depan dia, dia berhenti nangis, dan ketawa lagi..

Nah, ngga lucunya adalah pagi buta dia terbangun sekitar jam 01.30AM, nangis nangis dan baru berhenti begitu saya atau Dimi terlihat right before her very own eyes. Begitu kita balik badan atau menghilang ke balik pintu aja dia udah kembali meraung raung, udah dibilangin mama papa ngga kemana mana, Chloé bobo lagi ya, bla bla bla bla, ngga ngaruhhh.

Situasi ini berlangsung terus sampai jam 3AM (itupun akhirnya kita biarin dia nangis agak lama, biar cape dan bobo sendiri lagi, habis tanduk saya udah nongol aja..) !! Duh, ngga habis habisnya saya nyalahin diri sendiri jadinya, tapi Dimi bilang memang pas lagi masanya aja dia begini, ngga ada yang perlu dikhawatirkan, besok juga udah ngga begini lagi..

Hmmmm, ngga lagi deh saya main pura pura pergi gini, kena capenya di kita..huksss.. ^^

a Wii Fit (hmmmmm),

a new cell (bof),

or

a tatt (yummmmm, hehehe)

???

• The Tale of Jemima Puddle-Duck (Beatrix Potter)
• The Story of Miss Moppet (Beatrix Potter)
• Happy Families (Beatrix Potter)
• Tickle Time, Peter Rabbit (Beatrix Potter)

Semuanya buat si Chlochlo..hmmm, kapan ya ada yang bakal naro bukunya Linwood Barclay (Too Close To Home) ?

(some) women itu catty ?

(some) women itu love to talk crap about others ?

(some) women think mereka itu the most intelligent among others ?

(some) women itu ditsy ?

(some) women itu annoying ?

etc etc etc

………….aduh, pusing lho saya………….

Mudah mudahan nanti Chloé bisa jadi a well-behaved woman kaya mamanya (uhukkkkkkksss :D) :) Yang pikirannya lurus lurus aja, yang males nyibukkin diri mikirin urusan orang lain, yang relax aja menjalani hidup, yang ngga sibuk nonjolin diri ke orang orang di sekitarnya kalo dia itu kepalanya berisi, yang ngga munafik, yang…, yang…, yang…

Amennn..

Kemarin malam kita coba cari highchair lagi, akhirnya beli produk dari Cosatto, karena kita suka beberapa featuresnya. Saya dan Dimi mau biasain aja dari dini kalo di rumah dia selalu makan di kursi, meja makan di depannya (sekarang sih masih di bouncernya), ngga lari larian kemana mana..

Sempet pengen beli yang Chloé lagi coba di foto, karena bisa diubah jadi meja dan kursi kecil nanti kalo dia udah jadi tot. Tapi kayanya sempit banget, dan posisi traynya ngga bisa diadjusted..

Feeding schedulenya Chloé saya akan ubah ke 3 meals (solids)/day lagi mulai hari ini..

Chloé sempat 1x slept thru d nite, maksud saya beneran semalaman itu ngga bangun, so dia bobo dari jam 7pm sampe jam 6.20am..bravo, Ma Chérie !! On est fier de toi Karena biasanya Chloé tidur jam 7pm, terus kebangun jam 4am gitu, kita cuma kasih air putih aja sedikit, sekitar 10ml, abis itu dia langsung bobo lagi, kebangun jam 7am..

Pertama kalinya Chloé sakit Kamis minggu lalu, dia pilek, meler trussss semaleman. Malemnya juga sempet batuk, tapi paginya langsung hilang, mungkin karena kecapean juga balik dari Belgia ya, jadi deh sakit, luckily she had no fever..

Sekarang tinggal pileknya ini, kadang masih snotty, kadang hilang lega gitu. Saya sih cuma sedot aja bersihin kalo saya merasa terganggu dengernya, hehehe..kayanya sih Chloé mah ngga merasa terganggu tuh sakit gitu..

Tapi saya anggap dia sudah sembuh lah, tinggal sisa sisanya aja

Saya dan Dimi sejak dari dulu tipikal orang yang ngga pernah mau sentuh obat untuk sakit sakit ringan kaya pusing, flu, batuk, etc. Kecuali yang sampai ngga bisa beranjak dari tempat tidur, baru deh obat beraksi. Kami typical orang kuno yang percaya antibody pasti bisa ngatasin virus virus atau gejala sakit ringan. Makanya kami juga coba terapkan hal yang sama ke Chloé (baca: hanya untuk sakit ringan).

Sedikit pengecualian untuk saya Karena saya harus ngurus Chloé dan kalau saya sakit Chloé bakalan agak terbengkalai, maka kemarin itu pas saya tiba tiba mulai bersin bersin dan pilek, demi anak deh langsung saya minum obat satu harian itu dan besoknya langsung sembuh :p Kalo ngga..waduh, bisa bisa harus manggil part time nanny atau Dimi harus cuti..